Lessons in Life...

What do we learn from the people we know. What sort of matriculation results from having learned the life lessons they teach us along the way. Do these lessons not form us into the people we are?

Why, then, would we not be the person our loved one formed us into for us, but more for themselves, turning into the person they need us to be?

When we come to terms with the knowledge that that is what we, as humans are supposed to be doing, we begin to see the rewards we, in turn, receive from our people. One can also know that this knowledge also brings with it the understanding that it isn't when you fall in love with your people that you begin to understand them. The secret is that you already know them and that is why you love them. That is the greatest pleasure there is. Knowing in your soul that whatever they do will never hurt you. You're there, being the person they made you and you're comfortable in the knowledge and understanding of the whole package.

That , my friends, is the secret...

-by DeAnnalynn Arzola